I Want To Eliminate My Bad Habit...NOW!
How To Break Any Bad Habit In 30 Days
Bad habits can be hard to break. Regardless of the habit, destructive behaviors keep you away from the life you desire.
Unhealthy habits can have a
negative impact on your physical and mental health and leave you feeling
as if you don't have enough control over your impulses. While change is
frequently challenging, having a plan can make it easier.
This step-by-step plan can help you eliminate any bad habit:
1. Monitor the habit for a week.
Make note of the times you're likely to engage in the habit. Maybe you
only smoke around certain friends. Perhaps you bite your nails when
you're stressed or bored. At any rate, identify under which
circumstances your habit is most likely to rear its ugly head.
2. Find out why. Your
habit is satisfying some need. You're gaining a benefit or you wouldn't
be exhibiting the behavior at all. Figuring out the positive aspects of
your habit will help you understand it. Once you understand it, you can
begin to change it.
3. Develop a substitute behavior.
Find a more acceptable alternative that satisfies the same need that
was being met by the old habit. So if your habit helps you to deal with
stress, what are some healthy alternatives? Yoga? Other exercise? Deep
breathing? Meditating? Singing? Watching a comedy? Calling a friend?
- What could you do instead that isn't harmful? Better yet, what could you do instead that would be healthy for you?
- Start substituting the new habit for the old. It will take a fair amount of attention at first, but begin intentionally substituting the new behavior each time you would automatically use the old behavior. It's likely to be challenging, but with a positive focus, you can do it.
4. Measure your progress.
Keep track of how many times you engage in the old habit and how many
times you engage in the new habit. Progress can be difficult to
determine without measurement; if you don't know where you are, how will
you know if you're moving forward or backward? By measuring your
progress, you accomplish two things:
- You get feedback so you know how successful you are.
- You have the added motivation of seeing your progress.
5. Be patient. Take
one step at a time. Complete perfection is unreasonable, but a little
perfection can work wonders. Don't be upset when the inevitable slip
occurs while you're breaking your old habit. Just examine the situation
dispassionately and determine a better solution for the next time. You
still gain a lot by decreasing the frequency of the bad habit.
- A good idea is to focus on having one perfect day today. The idea of one day without the habit may seem quite reasonable - and doable - to you. A string of perfect days is a lot easier than trying to be perfect for an extended period.
- For tough habits, a perfect hour might work better for your short-term goal.
Now that you're armed with a
process, you can start eliminating that bad habit today. In 30 days, the
new, healthier habit should be a part of your routine without requiring
as much conscious effort. Changing to more positive habits can be
challenging, but you gain a wonderful feeling of accomplishment when you
do so.
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